Saturday, May 29, 2010

Family update

It feels like I haven't written in a while about Xander - or, at least, it's been a while since I've written in the detail that family requests! So let's see...

Some big news is that yesterday was Xander's last day at his daycare. For a variety of reasons, we're switching out of the care at school and going to a nanny-share. One of the caretakers at the school was leaving, so she's going to come to our house three times a week, and our friend's house twice a week, for the next month. After that we may keep with her or go to the JCC, we're not sure. But we're very happy that Xander gets to stay with a caretaker he knows, and the people we're sharing with are the parents of his very best friend in the world, Yasha (the younger of the two boys in the tractor pictures). So the caretaker will be looking after Xander, Yasha, and his older brother, and they'll have a good time I'm sure.

Our babeleh is also reaching a small milestone, which will hopefully lead to a bigger one soon... he's telling us when he needs a diaper change! Hooray. This means I've brought out a small potty to the living room, and he's slowly being introduced to it. He's not using it yet, but I have hope.

He loves to sweep - our kitchen floor is actually cleaner than usual because after every meal he insists on going to the pantry, signing for "help" to open the door or just opening it himself, and taking out his tiny broom. Then I pull out the big one and we clean the floor. I swear, it must be from Jonathan's side. God knows he doesn't get it from me.

Staying inside the house on weekends is getting a bit challenging, because he is a boy who likes to go places. So this morning we went to the park with Yasha's family, and tomorrow we're headed to the pool with his 3 year old girlfriend Claudia. Xander's getting into climbing, running, throwing a ball, all those gross motor skills he was lacking before. We can also tell he's becoming much more independent, as he now has definite opinions on what he wants to wear in the morning, or which book we should read him at night. He was sick with a fever last week and we couldn't take him anywhere, so Jonathan got a small tent to put in the dining room. Between that and Deann's suggestion that we play with rice, the week wasn't too miserable - it's now the special sick activity to sit in our tent, pour rice from one bowl to the next and sift it through our fingers.



He's upset because I'm taking a picture and not coming inside.


In terms of Jonathan and I - I finally finished all my side research work, and I'm more than halfway done with my summer class. My professor had to leave for a family emergency in Israel, but rather than cancelling my class, we're doing an independent study. He emails me articles, I read and summarize them, then we discuss them over Skype. I love technology.

Jonathan has been very busy taking a whole bunch of exams and certifications. The state has a program for "displaced workers" where they will pay for job training, so he's taken one certification and a bunch of classes so far. Right now he's studying for the PMP (Project Management training, the one Sylvan's involved in) in late June.

Simcha is looking thinner because he's shedding so much... and because Yentl now chases him all over! She's a spitfire, that one. Half his size but she wrestles him to the ground, and they play constantly. The weather's been so nice that Osher's practically living outdoors. He only comes in for food and the random snuggle.

I'll end with a short series of pictures about Xander's hat. Josh gave it to him over a year ago, since it has a big "X" on the front. (We tell Xander it's for his name - don't tell him it's for Xavier University). It's now his very favorite article of clothing.




















Thursday, May 27, 2010

Another article

This article made me seethe: the pedophile priests were suspended, but Sister Margaret at a hospital was just automatically excommunicated for consenting to an abortion that would save a mother's life. Do you agree with the author's take on the Church being out of touch?

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

We live in a very small world

From Tokyo, 1982.






Sunday, May 23, 2010

The loveliness of Shavuot playdates

We are sitting inside the scoop of a tractor. Xander was completely, totally scared out of his wits.





Walking around the CAT dealership.





Xander got up the courage to touch the wheel at one point. He had no idea it was so huge!






Cracking up at the real-life tractors.





Xander and his best buds Yasha and Eden.






It was a very exciting walk.





Deep babeleh talks.





Hugs!





Child TV.











This is what we were watching. (Mom, it was taken before we got your request for longer videos.)






After the CAT dealership, we went to an outside play area similar to the one we went to last month.





It was very exciting.






We closed off the day with crepes and blintzes in celebration of Shavuot. (We eat dairy since Israel is the land of "milk and honey.") But for the kids the biggest draw was BUBBLES!





YAY for bubbles!!!

Friday, May 21, 2010

Quote of the day

Leading services tonight, transitioning into silent prayer - I leave the podium and sit down in a chair on the side of the bima (raised area).

A tiny little two year-voice comes from the other side of the room:

"Daddy, where's the rabbi? I can't see her!"

"Shhh, she's praying."

"But I can't see her!! She DISAPPEARED! WHERE IS SHE?????"

It took all my willpower to try and keep a straight face. I'm still not sure I succeeded.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Lesson of the day

Little boys are fascinated by construction equipment in books. But when taken to see the real thing, they are super-scared and ultra-clingy.

Also, bubbles? Can fascinate four children for upwards of forty minutes while the grown-ups talk.

(I'm still not quite sure how I ended up as the grown-up.)




Pictures to follow.....

Monday, May 17, 2010

Playing outside last week

$5 truck from Craigslist. Best purchase EVER.




Oh no, it's getting away!





Ooooh, fixed it!













Mommy putting together my new outside clubhouse.






She obviously needs help.





A water table of my very own! And Tupperware?! My parents love me.





Watering the yard.






And the lawn.....













Spelling, shapes, numbers - so many things to do with sidewalk chalk!




It's good to take turns and share.





My masterpiece.


















And when it rained, we had to stay in:





Sunday, May 16, 2010

Some interesting articles for your perusal

I have mixed feelings about this one - What Is a Philosopher?

The class of 1970 finally graduates Boston University! -40 Years Later, a Proper Graduation

And there are more, but I'm being called downstairs for a movie...

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Things that crack me up

1) I overheard Jonathan talking to Xander yesterday as they looked out the window together: "Please don't lick the screen!"

2) Friday I had lunch with Hans Cristophe, a German researcher who has the table next to mine in the library. Actually, he's been sitting at what used to be my table, but he's so nice I've forgiven him. Turns out that he was on the path to being a Protestant minister before he changed tracks and went for his PhD in religion. We laughed at being exact opposites.

3) Xander was going around saying, "bubba, bubba" and we had no idea what he wanted. He looked frustrated and raced into his room. We thought he was mad. He wasn't... he had gone to retrieve the bubble blower. :)

4) Simcha now meows in his sleep. I wouldn't have believed it had I not seen it myself. Apparently the cat has made an oath to be noisy at all hours of the day, awake or asleep.

5) Sarah and Chris had a garage sale. I made the mistake of suggesting that Jonathan go while I subbed at religious school. He came home with a huge box full of Star Wars models. He said it was his childhood revisited. I said he could have however many he wanted, as long as they stayed in his office. Xander is in love with the X-wing and the A-fighter. Jonathan says he has good taste.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

I am R-A-B, hear me roar

Rabbinical school is a five year program. I've been here for three. (All you smart people who say that this is the end of my fourth year... you're too smart for your own good. I'm behind classes-wise because I took a semester off when I had Xander.)

But as of today I am DONE with my last final!

This means that I have earned my R.A.B. degree. Only the B.I. left to go. Ordination 2012, here I come!